| While you search the internet for that | | | | Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some |
| special lady…the one of your | | | | way or another…and that includes you, |
| dreams…your soul-mate…the other | | | | as well. If you expect the woman to be |
| half of yourself, you can do a lot of things | | | | absolutely perfect and demand that, you will |
| right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of | | | | always be disappointed. Demanding |
| things wrong….things that will | | | | perfectionism in your work is one thing. |
| guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out | | | | Demanding perfectionism from a friend, |
| in the "real" world, being aggressive, | | | | co-worker or a lady you are interested in is |
| demanding perfection and even little white | | | | not just fine. It won't happen. Expect |
| lies are all ingredients for success. | | | | flaws and just deal with them. Decide the |
| However, those same qualities are killers | | | | ones you can live with and those you can't. |
| when you are dating online and off line, too, | | | | |
| for that matter. | | | | Little white lies and false fronts won't |
| | | | work. Be honest from the beginning of a |
| There is a big difference between being | | | | relationship. Write your profile. Make it |
| aggressive or confident and being too | | | | interesting but don't make false statements. |
| aggressive, over-confident, or just plain | | | | The truth will come out eventually anyway. |
| sleazy or slimy from a woman's point of view. | | | | If you say you are a lawyer who makes a |
| If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you | | | | million bucks a year and you are really an |
| will come across as too | | | | electrician that makes $75,000, you have set |
| aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to | | | | yourself up for failure. |
| remember that you are not trying to close a | | | | |
| business deal and keep the relationship | | | | Remember…don't be too aggressive, |
| progressing at a slow but steady pace. | | | | expect to ever find perfection or put on a |
| Patience is the key. | | | | false front. |
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