| While you search the internet for that special | | | | Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or |
| lady…the one of your dreams…your | | | | another…and that includes you, as well. If you |
| soul-mate…the other half of yourself, you can | | | | expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and |
| do a lot of things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of | | | | demand that, you will always be disappointed. |
| things wrong….things that will guarantee failure | | | | Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. |
| and a broken heart. Out in the "real" world, being | | | | Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or |
| aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white | | | | a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won't |
| lies are all ingredients for success. However, those | | | | happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide |
| same qualities are killers when you are dating online | | | | the ones you can live with and those you can't. |
| and off line, too, for that matter. | | | | Little white lies and false fronts won't work. Be honest |
| There is a big difference between being aggressive or | | | | from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. |
| confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or | | | | Make it interesting but don't make false statements. |
| just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman's point of | | | | The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say |
| view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will | | | | you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year |
| come across as too aggressive…maybe even, | | | | and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, |
| scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to | | | | you have set yourself up for failure. |
| close a business deal and keep the relationship | | | | Remember…don't be too aggressive, expect to |
| progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the | | | | ever find perfection or put on a false front. |
| key. | | | | |