Self-Defense, Safety, and The 6 Keys to Effectiveness

When most people think of self-defense, what usuallya hundred different directions at once, can make even
comes to mind is protecting oneself from the physicalthe most disciplined meditation master open to attack
onslaught from a criminal attacker. And, while this is not,by a determined assailant. Add to this, all the trickery
in itself, a problem, it is however, only a small part ofand manipulative deception used by various types of
being able to be safe and free from harm in Today'sattackers, and you can see that it's virtually impossible
often dangerous world.to be aware of everything. And that sets you up for
The following is a list of the major key skill areas thatthe potential of an attack that comes seemingly "out
should be developed if you are truly seeking to be ableof the blue." Where distance is required to effectively
to avoid or escape from an attacker bent on seeingescape from an impending attack, you may not have
you as his victim.this luxury when you suddenly realize that you're the
Key #1 - General Awarenesstarget of an attacker already standing right in front of
It goes without saying that, if you don't believe thatyou.
danger exists in the world, or more to the point, thatBut, this still doesn't mean that you have to jump right
danger will never find you, then you will do little orto the physical aspects of self-defense. It's important
nothing to insure your safety. In addition, even if you doto remember that, regardless of your martial arts rank,
understand the dangers inherent in your world, whichhow many tricks you know, or even whether or not
can be assumed as you're reading this, it's important toyou're carrying a weapon, moving directly to physically
not fall into the trap of believing that the police, military,fighting with your assailant provides the greatest
or government can and should be the ones to protectchance for something going wrong.
you. When push-comes-to-shove, and you're the oneInstead, you can use tactics and strategies that involve
facing an enraged attacker directing his wrath at you,humor, feigning ignorance, or even faking a heart
you will be responsible for your own safety in thoseattack, to diffuse the situation and change a would-be
first few, precious, seconds.attack situation into one where the assailant becomes
Key #2 - Awareness of Surroundingsan ally. Here, it's important to remember that we want
While most so-called self-defense experts tend toto avoid mentioning the possibility of an attack but
lump "awareness" into one category, the truth is thatinstead, to distract the assailant by redirecting his or
there are many levels to this "skill of directing the mindher attention away from you as a target.
where it is most needed." While Key #1 focuses ourKey #5 - Dissuading
attention on the larger world-view of the presence ofWhen you can't avoid, escape, or even distract the
danger and our personal responsibility for our ownattacker and it appears that they are determined to
welfare, this key is directed at the details of theunleash their punishment on you, you still have one
moment. Here we're paying attention to "what's goingmore card to play before having to resort to fighting.
on around us." The fact is that, the better our ability toAt this point, you must become very focused yourself
pay attention and recognize danger as it begins toand understand that this is your last chance to stop
take shape, the greater our ability to avoid, escape, orthings from going "too-far." Here, you must be able to
neutralize its effect on us BEFORE it has a chance tolook squarely at your antagonist and, with your words,
touch us at all.body language and raw determination, communicate
That's what Danger Prevention Tactics are all about.that you will not allow them to carry our their plan -
And, especially for those of us who want to avoidthat you will not comply or become their victim.
fighting at all costs, it is the key to defending againstIt's important to understand that, even though there it's
most of the dangers that others fall victim to everyestimated that there is an assault every 17 seconds in
day. You can read more about this powerful video andthe US, that a full 70% or better of these can be
mastering the skills of danger avoidance athandled by Keys 1 through 5. It only stands to reason
Key #3 - Escaping to Safetythat you should know as much as possible about
While awareness will not prevent danger fromthese important areas and make sure that you have
appearing in your world, what it will do is to allow youseveral skills in each area that will work to serve you if
to respond to it sooner. And this is the powerful secretand when you should ever need them. If you're looking
used by the professionals and experts who regularlyfor a good source to learn more about these
face danger literally every day of their lives. No,important key elements in a sound self-defense
awareness alone will not save you, but it will allow youstrategy, as well as what you'll have to deal with from
to escape from the danger before it gets closeyour own body and mind's physio-emotional responses
enough to cause damage. The trick here is to developto stress and danger, make sure you read the book,
multiple routes to places that you visit regularly. Also,"The Karate Myth: Why Most Martial Arts and
developing the ability to recognize and plan for escapeSelf-Defense Programs Don't Work and How to Be
routes out of places like traffic, restaurants, your ownSafe in Today's World"
home, aircraft if you travel, and the like are all importantKey #6 - Physically Handle the Attack
to your overall safety plan. Remember too to validateWhen all else has failed, no matter what you believe,
all safety information that comes your way as most ofthink, or wish would have or should have happened,
what is out there has been written, not by actualwhen the fists start flying - the blade comes in to bite
survivors, but by people who have the job of writinginto and open your flesh - or the bullets start coming in
safety procedures. And, as any expert or survivor willyour direction, it's time for effective, efficient, and
tell you, what sounds perfectly logical in theory, may beproper physical action. There's a saying that goes,
completely and totally useless in the heat of the"Survivors Live Where Others Die." It's ultimately up to
moment!you, and the actions you take, long before the attack
Key #4 - Distracting the Attackerhappens as to whether you will be a "survivor" or an
The fact that your day is filled with demands for your"other." The choice is yours.
attention, distractions, confusion, and input coming from