Remembering Carl Cestari - The True Meaning of the Word Kokoro

The word "kokoro" is literally defined as "heart" but, asa bit sickening to me. He then hit the brick with his
with many Japanese words, can be translated asedge of hand; I thought the brick was going to break in
"heart of things" or "feeling". When I contemplate whatfront of me. He looked up with that intensity in his eyes
kokoro means to me, there is one person that hasand face much like he did after showing us techniques
embodied the essence of that word-Shinan Carlduring filming or training; then a smile crept onto his
Cestari. I first met Shinan approximately five yearsface. It was perfect.
ago. He was a thin man in a long sleeve shirt with aShinan Cestari continued to train his body until it gave
wispy beard. He was not a physical imposing man. Heout. His life was not an easy one but he persevered
spoke with intensity about martial arts, training methodsand moved forward. His legacy lives on in us. We
and people that he had met through out his life. At thatmust continue to train with intensity and honesty. What
time, I did not realize what he was all about. I nowdoes it mean? In my estimation, it means that we are
know more about him and what he was trying toteaching and training in reality; if it looks good in the
impress upon his students.dojo it won't work outside of it. Shinan Cestari always
Approximately, four years ago a few of the studentssaid that a fight is messy; your assailant's breath, blood,
from the ZenShin dojo went to move some gymsweat, saliva will get onto you, dirt, sand, snow, gravel,
equipment from the basement of a deli to Shinanstones will get imbedded into you. Shinan made that
Cestari's house. We moved weights, heavy bags andclear to us; he experienced situations that most of us
other various equipment down a narrow flight of stairsnever will (and be thankful for that). He stressed the
into the basement. After we had finished moving thereal aspects of fighting for your life; it is not a show
equipment, we sat in his living room where he regaledand it is not a joke; if you need to protect yourself you
us with stories about training and various people thatbetter be ready. While I did not know Shinan that well,
he knew from martial arts. I vividly remember watchinghaving only spent time with him on a few occasions,
him on the couch smoking a cigarette and telling ahe was an interesting man; he was dedicated to his
story about a man he had recently met. That individualstudy of martial arts. He held various degrees of black
had trained with Applegate and Fairburn and relatedbelts in karate, jujutsu, kempo, judo and founded our
some of his stories about training with them. During oneschool of jujutsu. It is our responsibility to maintain the
ofthe stories, Shinan's eyes lit up and he quickly roseintegrity and level of competence that Shinan set for
from the couch, left the room and came back with aus. It is a shame that many of our current students
brick. He sat back down and said that we (asnever had the opportunity to meet him. He could be
students) should consider the brick as a training tool.gruff but charming, intense yet caring, strict and loving.
As he said that, he unbuttoned his shirt and started toHe had heart- he personified kokoro.
hit his chest with such force that the thud it made was