| I am an avid mixed marshal arts fan. I especially | | | | your fears, anxieties, and doubts and use your mind |
| enjoyed the early years of the Ultimate Fighting | | | | -instead of your emotions- you cannot lose. |
| Championship. Back then, there were no rules, weight | | | | Overcome your anxiety and get your head on straight, |
| classes or 'scheduled' fights. It was a tournament. A | | | | and you can focus on winning back your lost love. |
| group of different fighters from different countries and | | | | Here's the cool part. Here's how you can actually |
| backgrounds would show up and draw who they | | | | control how your lover is thinking. |
| would be fighting in the first round. The winners would | | | | Are you arguing constantly with your lover? Are you |
| go on to the second round and so on until there was | | | | begging them to take you back? What you may not |
| only one fighter left. | | | | know, is by arguing and begging, you are actually |
| ...I know, you must be thinking I've completely gone off | | | | pushing them farther away. |
| track here... but keep reading and I'll explain... | | | | Instead you should say something like.... |
| One fighter stood out among all of them. He was the | | | | "You know, you're right. Things will never work |
| champion for three years in a row, defeating three | | | | between us after all that has happened. It's better if |
| men in one night each time. He was tall, skinny, and | | | | we are apart. Do you want me to help you pack? Do |
| lanky. He didn't look like a fighter, but he defeated | | | | you need money for an apartment?" |
| countless men, many of whom were twice his size. His | | | | By agreeing with your lover's negative feelings, no |
| name was Royce Gracie, and he was a Brazilian Jai | | | | matter how BAD they may be, you are taking away |
| Jilts black belt. | | | | their reason to fight with you. You are INSTANTLY |
| It was amazing to watch him fight. You see, Jai Jilts is | | | | putting yourself on THEIR side. |
| not an offensive style of fighting. Royce would allow | | | | You see, like Royce Gracie did in his fights, you must |
| other fighters to attack him, and he would use their | | | | GIVE your lover complete control. Allow them to do |
| own strength against them. He won fights, not by his | | | | whatever they want to do without arguing or pleading |
| own strength, but by his mind. He would allow the other | | | | with them to do something different. |
| fighter to mount him. At times, it looked like he was | | | | You don't need to out-argue them... |
| getting the snot beat out of him, but he never flinched. | | | | You don't need to convince them... |
| He would just go with it. He never seemed worried. | | | | You don't have to. |
| And he wasn't worried. | | | | Instead, let them have their feelings, and do what they |
| You see, he knew that he wasn't going to out fight | | | | want. You will be amazed at how their attitude |
| them. He was small. He wasn't all that strong. Instead, | | | | changes, and before long, you "will find an opening." |
| he would wait for the right time, and simply choke his | | | | You will defeat their negative feelings, and gain back |
| opponent out, or put him in some kind of submission | | | | their love. It's really not that difficult, if you know what |
| hold and make them tap out (give up). He outsmarted | | | | you are doing and can focus on winning THEM and |
| his opponent, and used their own size against them. | | | | not the argument |
| His MIND was a powerful weapon, and he learned | | | | When your lover thinks you agree with the break-up |
| how to use it effectively. | | | | they let their guard down. They lose their reason to |
| Royce never lost a fight in early UFC. Never. | | | | fight with you. It is then that you can begin your 'stealth' |
| Despite the odds you are facing, if you know how to | | | | strategy to win. Before they realize what happened, |
| use your MIND, you can overcome them. It doesn't | | | | you will have them begging for you to 'come home'! |
| matter how bad the situation is, if you can overcome | | | | Magic? No. Mind control? Try it... you'll see. |