Dealing With Emotional Stress So You Can Move Forward

Hans Selye first coined the word "stress." Hemartial arts movement works the whole body and
described in his seminal book "The Stress of Life" howhelps bring about peace and calm.
"stress" is important to living. Without it we will die. HeMeditation has long been shown to help people who
stated that through the "General Adaptation Syndromeare stressed. This is especially true when meditation is
(GAS)" our bodies are constantly adapting through thecombined with deep breathing. Meditation, like Tai Chi, is
different stresses we face in order to grow. All livingwhen the person is focused on one thing. Visualizing
matter has been growing through this process sincethe movement of the flame of a candle is very
the dawn of time.effective for focusing. One has to stay focused on the
Selye took the term "stress" from the constructionmovement of the flame while deep breathing. This
industry in describing how the body goes throughfocus on the movement helps one to stay away from
stress. He later wanted to backtrack on this, insteadnegative thoughts that tend to cause anxiety.
opting for GAS. But "stress" was already in place withYoga also incorporates meditation into its exercise
the public. Where stress on a bridge or building canmovements and has been used by practitioners for
cause an eventual collapse, stress on the human bodycenturies. Started in India, yoga has gained a large
causes the body to adapt.following throughout the world. Its popularity took off in
We also can have an impact on the way our bodiesthe 1960s and 1970s. The movement that forms the
handle stress through simple, yet effective techniques.basis of yoga combines flexibility, strength, and stamina
Some of these have been adopted from Easternin order to hold the moves.
philosophies and exercises. By using various strategiesMore recently, kickboxing and MMA classes have
and techniques, you'll be able to conquer the stress inbecome popular. While they don't incorporate
your own life.meditation as part of their training, they can be a great
As Selye pointed out in his book, getting tostress reliever for some. Traditional martial arts are
homeostasis is what the mind and body are strivingalso great.
for. Being too relaxed can be just as bad as tooDeep breathing has always been great at relieving
stressed. Our bodies constantly adapt to stress beingstress quickly. Used in many different areas, including
placed upon it. When we exercise, our bodies adapt tohypnosis, deep breathing is a lost art that should be
it and grow. It's also a great way to relieve stress.brought back. Too many people are breathing wrong.
Talking a walk through a park is a great relaxingThey tend to breathe from the upper chest area
exercise.thinking that is deep breathing. Deep breathing occurs
Some people need to be around other people to helpwhen the diaphragm and abdominal muscles are
relieve stress. By going to a gym or some otherinvolved in bringing air to the lower part of the lungs. By
fitness center, you'll be able to get some exercise andbreathing in for a count of 4-10 and exhaling for the
meet people with similar tastes.same count. Relaxation can take place very quickly.
One type of exercise that is great, especially in aEven the military and first responders have started
group situation is Tai Chi. Many parks have instructorsusing various deep breathing techniques.
that teach groups the movements. Tai Chi also bringsHypnosis, visualization, guided imagery, and NLP
with it focused concentration in a meditative sort oftechniques all offer excellent ways to relieve stress.
way. And meditation is itself a stress reliever. The slowMore on this will be in upcoming articles.