| Work stress plays a very major role in hurting married | | | | issues. For us the stress at that moment is the center |
| life. Most of the men and women bring their stress | | | | of our life. Our mind is occupied with that stress. |
| home and play havoc with their married life. The stress | | | | Therefore when we reach home, we are ready to |
| spills over at home and creates further stress. Home | | | | speak harshly, blame family members, showing irritation |
| should be used to dissolve the work stress. Home | | | | and express our frustration in many other ways.Ideally, |
| should be the place to relax and get comfort. Home | | | | when we reach home, we should tell our spouse |
| should be the place where we get rid of the stress | | | | about the stress and ask help to get over it. He/she |
| that we bring from outside. But opposite happens. Let | | | | will find ways to comfort us. Prepare a comforting hot |
| us discuss how to avoid this and keep our home | | | | bath, putting on light music or your favorite television |
| protected from any such stresses. Let us also discuss | | | | show. We should make our family a partner in our |
| how home can help us fight these stresses.The very | | | | stress and not blame them for contributing to our work |
| first question should be - What is more important? | | | | woes, because that is generally not the truth. A |
| Married life or work life? New work /job can be found, | | | | marriage can be a great cure for stressed life. It is not |
| but getting another person to marry will be difficult. | | | | the place where you go and put all your blames. |
| What about after retirement? Who will be with us- our | | | | Bringing balance in life is most important. Make your |
| spouse or our company? We never think about these | | | | marriage work for you. |